FACEBOOK BEING BOGGED

to prevent my fb account from being crowded with tom, dick, and harry; I had just done a run through on my list of friends in fb. Well, I managed to delete bout 6 peeps so far - i'm sorry i had to, but it really doesn't mean anything to have someone whom I hardly keep in touch with; since my purpose of fb is to expand my network of friends whom I in fact, DO kit with. Yeah.

I will do a run through on my list of friends in fb periodically. Hopefully I have the free time. I definitely have to control on who's in and who's out. hehe XDXD

Some of my friends are in BTN camp now. lucky them. They'd be done with it by the end of the week. As for me, I've to go for it next week i.e. 13th to 17th of july. anyone been to BTN? care to chip in some tips for me? lol :P

cheers,~

YTN Reorientation~!!

awesome~ness!! that's the word for it~! Well, in the previous post, I wrote, "i hope i'll enjoy this camp." And true enough, I did enjoy the camp. almost every bit of it; especially at El-Azzhar Camp in Morib, Klang~! I loved the outdoors except the childish games; but I did enjoy the water activities. hehe XD

Let's see, another thing I enjoyed about this camp was the people I met. I definitely made new friends; and a few very good ones too - in such a short period of time~! ;) For this, I am on cloud nine! I am also very grateful to be given the opportunity to meet such nice beings. God bless them.

Not only that, I had new experiences as well such as listening to tazkirah - it's quite cool. lol. It was held in the surau and at least by attending it, I was not left to be alone: as it would surely be boring to be on your own. hehe. So, I followed my senior for almost every tazkirah session. haha :D

The beautiful souls I met -->

Kak Naili : Beautiful, both at heart and looks :D very nice and cute personality, patient, helpful, sharing and caring. A person who really practise what she preaches. one of the very good muslim girls, which are hard to find these days ;P she has taught me so much and has given me such a beautiful and sacred gift. I will treasure it and use it well. kak naili's such a witty person too. she's like a little girl though she's married.hehe..Overall, she's an A++ in my list. important person whom I hope to establish a lasting friendship with.

Hanim Hashim: called anem. a very petite person. nice, simple, helpful, sharing and caring, informative as well as down-to-earth. she's very supportive and she's been a very good roomie for the whole week I was with her. she's always there for you. definitely another A++ person in my life. I wish to have a friendship with her that would last a lifetime. Can't wait to see her in McGill and we are planning to go to UK together to visit kak naili. owh yes, jundi wants to tag along too. hehe.

Syakirin: he's known as syak, the Genius. when asked, "who do you think are 1st class potentials here?" and I would hear his name after. he was my group leader in camp. a good listener and considerate. a very tolerant person and he is very practical and modest. whenever I look at him, I feel like smiling cos he has a very unique look. he's very thin and tall. he has a very unique personality to boot with. all in all, an A person. hehe XDXD hope to meet him in the future; hmm. maybe we might be working together? haha

Acap: Ashraff Sanusi is his given name. What got me to notice him was the fact that I was one of the three names he could remember. lol. then, at camp morib - the first night when we went for the mud walk, through the paya bakau slumps, acap helped me a lot~! lol.never have I felt that useless in an outdoor activity. anyway, let's focus on acap here. haha. he's a very nice person, witty as well as fun and cheerful~! ppl around him would be bright w his presence. I feel comfortable too. he's cool and playful as well. owh yes, not to forget, he's loud n noisy. hehe. in a good way of course. for this, he's an A+ person to me. lol. I think i've taken a liking to him. hahaha XDXD

Azraf: he's gonna be my uni mate pretty soon. he's very playful and childish, loud and talkative too. outgoing plus cheerful. but then, I heard, in uni, he's not like that at all. he's a completely different person when he's aorund ppl whom he isn't comfortable being with. well, that's what I heard anyway. not sure how true it is. I shall see for myself. he's unique too. haha. he's an A person. he might be of great help tome in the future.hehe *evil grin*

Farah: a very strong girl with a strong heart. she's tough and different from many girls. she loves to travel and she safes a lot. but it all goes to her travelling. lol. she's also a very interesting person w her own unique personality to couple with. I'm sure she'll succeed in all her endeavours. hehe. an A person. ill see ya in McGill too dear~! ;)

Dolah: abdullah zubair. he was my teammate. lol. he's funny. he listens well and he contributes great ideas as well. he is also a nice person who helps others who are in need. he also has a strong fighting spirit especially when he tries his best to win something for the team~! ;) An A guy~! ;D



Fitri: a very nice guy. also my sister's batchmate when they were in Kolej Yayasan Saad, Melaka. he helped me out with bowling. he's awesome at it n seeing me who is really terrible at it, he kindly offers to teach me how to bowl. lol. and it worked~! my second game was wayyy awesome than the first. lol. i'm also honoured to receive a card from him at the end of the camp. hehe. thanks fitri~! grade: A ;D

and the list goes on....

Here are some camp pics --

There are more on facebook. It's quite rare for me to post pictures on fb but I decided to put it up this time cos a few of my camp mates would like to grab the photos since they don't have it. So, do feel free to get them from my page. user name: -------

All in all, this is one of the best camp I've attended; it's mostly due to the people involved. The facilitators were great too! they were fun and cool. abang --- and abang ---. lol. i enjoyed their company. I am definitely looking forward to the reorientation camp in two years time with my juniors. hopefully, they are a bunch of cool peeps too. lol XDXD

cheers,~!

ways to keep your powerful love alive.. =D

In the beginning of a relationship we do our best to give our partner the benefit of the doubt, expressing our love and goodwill, even when we're upset. However, as time goes on, it can get harder to resolve arguments and, therefore, harder to feel loving and forgiving towards our partner. It's at these times that we start to ask ourselves, is there a secret to making a relationship last? Is it really possible to live happily ever after?

The answer to these questions is, "Yes!" However, the hardest question to answer is: How do we do it? How do I have a lasting, happy relationship that doesn't end in a painful breakup?

The first thing to remember is that KEEPING A PARTNERSHIP HEALTHY AND HAPPY REQUIRES WORK AND THAT IT WILL NOT HAPPEN ON ITS OWN! -- just like a flower won't grow if it isn't watered and fed. Relationships need nurturing, tending to, time, and energy! We often forget that a couple contains two human beings who both need to be appreciated, heard, valued, and respected.

With this in mind, here are seven ways to make your relationship last:

1. Keep the lines of communication open. If you don't know how to express your feelings and/or have poor listening skills, learn to get better at both. You can read a book, take a class, or get into counseling. Good communication requires both the ability to express and listen.

2. Don't sweep your fights under the rug and think they'll magically resolve themselves. Do your best to resolve your first argument as soon as it arises so you won't have the same argument for the next 50 years, in different forms.

3. Remember that you love your partner; therefore, you want the best for her/him. Give her/him the benefit of the doubt when you feel angry, hurt, or disappointed. Talk to your partner; don't make assumptions.

4. Don't take your partner for granted. Tell your partner every day something you appreciate about her/him and how grateful you are to have them in your life.

5. Your partner should never feel like your enemy. If they do, something is wrong; remember that you fell in love with this person. If there's so much anger that you feel like you are enemies, get help somewhere as quickly as possible.

6. Gauge your relationship. Notice and don't ignore the warning signs if you're not talking, you're less affectionate, you're fighting all the time, and you're not happy. The sooner you acknowledge you're having problems, the sooner you can begin to solve them.

7. Always remember that you have the power to change behaviors in your relationship through different tools of self-discovery. You don't have to stay stuck in unhealthy ruts.

Good, lasting relationships are made up of two conscious individuals who have the desire to work on themselves with the determination to stay focused on the importance of their relationship. They do not take their partner for granted. They have their partner's best interest at heart and, therefore, build trust with their partner. When arguments come up, they don't ignore them. They address the issues and try to resolve them. When they see warning signs that their relationship could be in trouble, they act immediately and look for new ways to relate to each other.

This can be accomplished by anyone who is willing to take the time and energy to make their relationship a priority in their life. Nurture your partnership as it so richly deserves! You can live happily ever after, not with magic, but with work, awareness, and knowledge of yourself and your partner.

for the sake of putting up a post~!

let's see, wht did i do today?

owh yea, wait., yesterday first. i woke up at 8, ate breakfast, and went to pudu with my mom. hmm, we bought stuff for the condo's furnishing and etc. i got my universal adaptor too. ill need that when im in canada soon. hehe.. yippie.. ;)

then, went to bandar sri permaisuri n bought more stuff. haha. also bought some chinese kuihs. really nice. hehe. but too bad i dunno wht it's called. =.=

hmm, at 130pm, went str8 to KLIA to pick my dad from sabah and we headed to malacca~! yayy...been so long since i went there to visit my grandauncle n g/auntie as well as my uncle, aunty, and cousins. well, we made this trip since im gonna fly soon and wil not b able to join my relatives for CNY celebrations next year. sob~!!!!!!!!!! :'( waaaaaaaaaaaaaa... i'll miss gambling with my high school pals~!

anyway, let's move on to today's happenings. right. hmm.. *blankblank*

*bing bing* alright, woke up, went to bandar sri permaisuri again, hoping tht chinese uncle who sells those kuih is there, but oops, we were there too early i guess. too bad. then,c ame back home, i helped my mom at home and then she went out to send my brother back to his boarding school (RMC). the moment she went out, i slept right away. haha. i just love sleeping~! ;)

yes, i played the piano n guitar after that. owh, n then did some house chores. :D

i feel like such a good girl for helping around at home.. haha. pergh..

n now, im at the com, surfing the net and posting up some stuff to sell them online. owh yes, forgot to mention that my internet these days sucks~! it's always disconnecting itself.. urghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh... >(

ciao~!

cheers,~~

oops~! forgot to mention~!!!

did i forget to mention that I got my own guitar???!!!! hahahahaha.... yes, indeed~! I have just bought a new guitar for myself.. muahahahahhaa.. *evil laugh* hiahia.. anyway, now i can at least play the guitar at home~! yeehaaaaa... XDXDXDXD so happy~!

i love guitar~! i wish i can pluck though..it is way cool than just strumming.. haha.. oh well, see if there's anyone who can teach me plucking one day..yes. one fine day :D

cheers,~ :D

wht did i do today? :D

well, woke up at 650am. not my choice of course.. i had to.. since i had a meeting at 7am. went to lake garden for fellowship session with my CF members.. it was really rejuvenating since the air was cool and so fresh~! went to the mousedeer park and saw so cute kancils.. hehe.. they have such tiny legs.. n the way it runs around in the cage is so adorable.. :D hiahia.. i had some fun time..we had breakfast and lunch too. oo yea, saw ducks, moose and swan too. i enjoyed the greenery since i haven't been outdoors for a long time.. blame it on CIMP.. again.. ahahhaha... :P

owh yea, you know, if u don't have anything good to say about someone, then, just dont say anything... especially writing about someone without feeling any remorse cos u think they will never read it anyway.. i mean, u know, wht goes around, comes around.. :))

anyway, i played guitar and practised more to improve but of course i still cannot pluck at all.. hahaha.. i think tht is really hard n those who can do it..they're awesome~! :D

hehe.. wokies blog.. im done for today..haha.. :)

owh n i'm missing someone badly.. so sad :'(

cheers,
Lil

whoA~~~!!!!! CIMP is done~! at last!!! *sigh of relief* =D

hey hey~! haven't update my blog for a quite some time.. oh well, blame it all on CIMP. the craziest course I've ever done! this sem is the worst! saite! honto ni.. =.= so exhausting and tiring. BUT, my friends are awesome. i met so many nice people! yes, i will surely miss all of you^^

hehe.. after the last paper, i.e. calculus, I was snapping away like I have never done before. note: I don't like taking pictures.. this is one of the rare occassion. lol.. i mean, if I don't take pictures, I wouldn't have any memories of my friends and college! right after that, i was jumping and laughing all the way to pyramid! well, not literally.. haha.. i was given a lift by my friend, gosh.. he drove like a hell driver.. hehe.. no offense yea.. but it did scare me.. seriously! i mean, if they can drive, why won't my mom lemme drive on my own??!!! urghhh >(

anyway, reached pyramid, and we headed for pictures, but there was no movie that was of my friend nor my interest.. lol.. i mean, we lined up all the way and when it was our turn, we decided not to purchase any tix.. haha.. since we can watch superbly great and hilarious jap anime at the hostel. instead, we went to the arcade and goodness, perspired a lot! huahua.. :D

then. we went to forever 21 and tried on clothes.. so pretty.. :))

later, we went and have some ice-cream at new zealand natural since they had a promotion: free ice-cream.. haha.. n we bought the large portion at 50% off. it was really yummy, cooling, rejuvenating, and fantabulously delicious~! so satisfying~! and then, we ate korean food!! yayyy..one of my fav.. oh well, i can't help it.. i appreciate food and i enjoy eating.. heheh.. have to get back on my exercise routine..

then, we went back home.. goodness. i was so full, i almost couldn't walk..hahahahha.. :D and then, we continued our anime marathon! peach girl is sooo great! if you are a fan of anime, do watch it.. no regrets.. guaranteed.. heheh..

oh yea, n i played guitar before we started our anime marathon..ahha.. gosh, i never thought that guitar is so enjoyable and interesting.. i mean, previously, i figured and thought guitar was erm, dull of an instrument, which is ---WRONG---!!! hahahah.. it is the bomb.. it's easier than piano yet it sounds great! and very serene and peaceful.. hehe.. yes, i will get my guitar soon.. rela soon. but the cheap one though..lol.. i will be leaving malaysia anyway..so i cannot bring it with me.. sad..

I will be graduating next fri, so i guess i will be going to Sunway College again for the last time-hopefully--cos i'm so sick of the orange themed structures and buildings.. yucks.. owh yes, i will bake some brownies and maybe bring some for my friends.. hehe.. n kek batik too..

Naq, i'm going to miss u.. a lot! haha... cos u r the sweetest person i've ever met and when i'm with u, im more behaved like a girl.haha..

Maka: is that how u spell it? haha.. anyway, will miss yr laugh..it is sso entertaining.. but too bad, u have another sem ahead of ya.. hahaha.. good luck with tht bro..

Noer: my anime partner!hahaah.. i will miss u.. cos u're so cute and clumsy...lol.. n u're really nice..will miss yr mom's indonesian food.. sob..it is really nice and yummy..tummy satusfying always.. hehe

Medi: thanks a lot for teaching me guitar and lending yr guitar to me like all the time!am missing u guys already.. sob.. especially the guitar.. heheh

all my friends: thanks for accepting me for who I am.. will miss all of you... thanks for being my friends peeps.. :D

cheers,