A common mistake and a bad habit that every normal person has is to talk about someone else's weaknesses or wrongdoings; but remember, in this holy religion i.e. Islam, God never encourages His slaves to reveal another's downfalls, imperfections, flaws and well, you get the drift. I mean, don't you have anything else better to chat about to others? How would you like it when people talk about you? Plus, our parents have always taught all of us to "if you don't have anything good to say, it's better to zip it~!!". Right right? Lol~~ oh yeah, just to add a little more, the next time, right when your about to say something negative bout someone, please direct it back to yourself~!! Ask yourself, am I any much better than him/her?? (kenapa nak ckp pasal org, kita ni baik sgt dah ke? *coughs* obviously jawapannya, flat N O i.e. NO~!!)
Should you ever become eager to mention another's faults, RECALL YOUR OWN~!!!